Part of me is inspired, the other part is just plain mad!

It's a little easier for her to be thankful. She had a baby already (so she didn't have to experience that awful nagging question: "Will my body EVER be able to carry a baby?) and is already expecting another one after the miscarriage! There is no way she could understand the pain that can come with Infertility AND Miscarriage. People that think they understand and don't, make me so mad even though I know it shouldn't and they are just trying to show that they care. Sigh.